Why would I go to a peer counselor over a therepist?

My approach does not replace therapy, it complements therapy, offering an alternative route that draws from my dual roles as a peer support counselor and coach.

What I provide as a Certified Peer Counselor vs. a Licensed Clinical Therapist

Peer Counselors are a lot like Coaches or Mentors only Peer Counselors have undergone formal training in peer support and they are individuals who have first-hand experience in intense therapy and successful recovery.

Therapists have different roles and approaches, and each can offer unique benefits to clients based on their needs and goals. Here are some things that a peer counselor can do that a therapist might not typically provide:

Lived Experience: Peer Counselors have had personal experience with the specific challenges or issues they're supporting others with. This can create a strong sense of relatability and understanding, as they've been through similar situations and emotions.

Empathy and Connection: Due to their shared experiences, peer counselors often offer a unique level of empathy and connection. This can create a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to share their feelings and concerns.

Practical Insights: Peer Counselors can provide practical strategies and insights that worked for them personally. These strategies might not be found in textbooks but could be valuable because they've been tried and tested in real life.

Validation: Having someone validate your feelings and experiences, especially when they've been through something similar, can be incredibly reassuring and affirming which empowers clients that change is an attainable goal.

Cultural and Social Understanding: Peer Counselors from similar cultural backgrounds or social contexts might have a deeper understanding of the cultural or societal factors affecting an individual's challenges.

Less Clinical Atmosphere: Some individuals may feel more comfortable talking to a Peer Counselor in a less clinical setting, which can reduce the stigma often associated with seeking professional help.

Complementary to Therapy: Peer Counseling can be a great addition to professional therapy. It can provide ongoing support, practical advice, and understanding between therapy sessions.

Goal-Oriented Approach: Peer Counselors often focus on helping clients set and achieve specific goals, whether they're related to personal development, career advancement, or lifestyle changes. This goal-oriented approach can provide clients with tangible results and a sense of progress.

Action Planning: Peer Counselors emphasize actionable steps and strategies to help clients move forward. They can provide practical advice, accountability, and tools for implementing changes in a client's life.

Forward-Focused: Peer Counseling often centers on the future, guiding clients to imagine where they aspire to be and aiding them in crafting a roadmap to reach those goals. While Therapists may delve into the past to grasp present difficulties, I also concentrate on unearthing the root causes behind behaviors, while simultaneously channeling efforts into refining those responses. My approach accentuates progress and actions that pave the way for an improved future.

Skill Enhancement: Peer Counselors play a crucial role in assisting clients to cultivate distinct abilities, encompassing aspects such as self-care, fundamental budgeting, basic money management, anger management, and establishing basic health,  fitness & wellness routines.

Additionally, addresses skills in interpersonal communication, leadership, time management, and various other domains. The acquisition of these proficiencies holds immense value, contributing to both personal development and professional advancement.

Accountability: Peer Counselors often provide a heightened level of accountability, helping clients stay on track with their goals and commitments. This can be especially effective for individuals who need external motivation.

Short-Term and Long-Term Focus: Peer Counselor engagements can vary in duration, spanning either shorter or longer periods based on individual needs. Generally, as clients transition from therapy, there's a natural progression, and during this phase, I provide a supplementary long-term plan.  

Short-term arrangements are also available for clients. Some regular clients occasionally schedule sessions when they want to share their thoughts and seek an impartial perspective on their situations to steer them in the right direction. Peer Counselors are here to assist clients in recognizing their blind spots, which we all have. These blind spots become more evident when viewed through an unbiased lens, and that's precisely what we offer. 

Short-term or long-term, these plans serve to prevent regression or relapse and ensure that the progress achieved continues to flourish. These approaches are particularly advantageous for individuals seeking targeted outcomes and who may not necessitate extensive, ongoing therapeutic intervention.

Proactive Problem-Solving: Peer Counselors help clients identify obstacles and challenges and work together to develop solutions. This proactive approach can empower clients to overcome barriers.

Peer Counselor/Coach Fusion: While Coaches often carve out niches in areas like career, health, or relationship coaching, I bring together the specialized realms of a Peer Support Counselor and a Coach. My versatility stems from a rich tapestry of experience and expertise, allowing me to provide a comprehensive blend of both roles.

Unlike Therapists, who delve into clinical diagnosis and therapeutic interventions, as a peer counselor I often specialize in specific domains such as career, health, and relationships. This expertise enables me to offer targeted guidance in these areas. Merging the specialized roles of a Peer Support Counselor and coach, I bring a multifaceted approach born from diverse experience and knowledge.

Balancing Multiple Roles: Peer Counselors can help clients navigate various roles and responsibilities in their lives, such as work-life balance, leadership challenges, or personal development.

 

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Gina Stanard

It's important to note the distinctions between a peer counselor and a therapist. They aren't always black and white.

Some therapists incorporate coaching techniques into their practice, and some peer counselors have backgrounds in mental health.

The choice between a peer counselor and a therapist depends on the individual's needs, the nature of their challenges, and their goals for personal development or recovery.

I specialize in a diverse range of skills aimed at supporting clients in their therapeutic journey or their pursuit of individual recovery, guided by someone who understands firsthand.

My experience spans trauma recovery, attachment, PTSD, disassociation, and triumph over challenges such as dyslexia that went unnoticed during my youth. I've walked a powerful success story of my own. As a trauma survivor, I faced significant learning disabilities in my youth.

As an adult child of an alcoholic and codependent parent, I managed to overcome my codependent patterns, fears, and tendencies to give way to my instinctual "lizard brain" reactions by tapping into my higher cognitive functions. This transformation led to a significant shift in my life. I successfully navigated hurdles related to trust and fostered positive, healthy connections with both peers and partners.

Today, I thrive in this job I love—a role that aligns perfectly with my vocation and my deep-seated passion for aiding others. I enjoy a fulfilling and exceedingly comfortable lifestyle, and my relationship with my husband is marked by genuine contentment in our happily married life.

The happiness that pervades our household is reminiscent of the childhood dreams I used to nurture. Those dreams once seemed unattainable, yet now they've become a reality and embraced by a support system that I truly regard as both a privilege and an honor in my life. The psychological hang-ups that once held me back are no longer obstacles in my path.

Certified in various areas, my credentials include:

  • Certified Trauma Integration Practitioner (CTIP)
  • Interpersonal Relationship Skills Specialist
  • Certified Sexual Abuse Awareness Training
  • Anger Management Specialist
  • Certified Trauma Support Specialist
  • Certified Peer Specialist
  • Certified Peer Counselor
  • Certified Divorce Recovery Specialist 
  • Certified Relationship Counselor 

While my expertise and training are comprehensive, it's important to note that peer counselors don't possess the clinical training of therapists to diagnose, provide clinical treatment plans or prescribe medication.

If you're seeking assistance alongside therapy or you need a guide along your own path to personal growth, I'm here to help. I also collaborate with clients who are already engaged in or graduated from therapy, offering complementary support.

It's crucial to remember, however, that I don't provide diagnoses. Evaluating the severity of your challenges and aligning your needs with my peer counseling offerings is key.

For issues of greater severity or clinical nature, I strongly recommend consulting a licensed therapist or mental health professional, and I'm here to assist you in finding the right help.

Thank you for considering me as your peer counselor. Together, we can navigate your journey toward recovery and growth.

 

                                                                    It's important to note

Therapists play an undeniably invaluable role in our well-being. I can personally attest to the benefits of therapy, having experienced its positive impact over an extended period. I hold immense respect for its effectiveness and firmly believe in the profound significance of therapy. I would never discourage anyone from seeking therapy when needed.

However, what I offer is an alternative path to healing. My approach complements therapy, providing a non-clinical therapeutic option that leverages my dual roles as a peer support counselor and a trauma-informed practitioner. My training has been under the guidance of reputable DBT therapists, psychotherapists, and psychologists who have imparted the methods of my practice.

This alternative approach aims to enhance your support system and provide an additional layer of guidance on your journey towards healing and self-improvement.

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