From Polarities to Parallels 

Unveiling the science of intersexual dynamics in relationships, dating, vetting and a balanced approach to couples counseling

Intersexual Dynamics &  Relationship Counseling

My passion for nurturing flourishing relationships, paired with my deep understanding of intersexual dynamics, drives my expertise.

As a Certified Relationship Counselor, my training is rooted in extensive knowledge of evolutionary psychology and insights gained from familial history, I offer a scientific and empathetic approach that delves into the reasons behind human behaviors.

This approach not only helps us comprehend the intricacies of our actions but also sheds light on the inherent differences between men and women.

Recognizing these polarities as essential components, I emphasize their significance in establishing a strong foundation within relationships.

My guidance is tailored to these insights, ensuring a well-rounded and informed approach to relationship counseling. 

In the context of counseling for couples, my approach is firmly anchored in objectivity and impartiality, devoid of any blame or bias towards one gender over the other. I do not subscribe to the notion that one gender's perspective holds inherent superiority.

I firmly believe in maintaining a professional stance that values each individual's experiences and viewpoints as valid while encouraging acceptance of biological behavior and the elimination of neurotic behavior in relationships. I focus on utilizing evidence-based practices instead of relying on preconceived biases. I facilitate the identification of effective and ineffective dynamics, guiding the shift in perceptions and reality. I focus on transcending ego-driven conflicts, delving into the underlying reasons and solutions.

I aid individuals seeking relationships who have encountered past challenges, often stemming from deep-rooted struggles often paired with an ineffective vetting process. I possess a proven track record of assisting clients in their dating lives, leading to successful long-term relationships and marriages.

I've also guided clients in relationships to recognize when it's time to move on. I emphasize that staying in a relationship solely for convenience or ego validation is not a fulfilling way to live. I prioritize my client's best interests above all else. 

I provide guidance on how individuals can enhance themselves to achieve desired relationship outcomes. This includes strategies for evaluating potential partners, self-discovery, and recognizing behaviors or patterns that hinder their quest for a compatible life partner or significant other.

I believe that men and women are stronger together and that relationships thrive through the law of polarity—a harmonious dance. I help clients recognize their roles and how their differences complement each other.

I encourage a shift in mindset away from identifying who is right or wrong. Instead, it's about what demonstrates effectiveness versus what doesn't.

I've guided couples toward successful marriages and am privileged to have had clients invite me to attend and officiate their weddings.

Solutions Focused Tools

Gina’s Solutions Focused Coaching for Men and Women includes Relationship & Dating Coaching, Trauma Recovery Coaching and Codependency Recovery Coaching.

  • How to Break the Cycles of Unreasonable Expectation, Attachment to Outcome and Eliminate Anger, Resentment, and Fear
  • Techniques for Conflict Resolution within any Relationship i.e. Spouses, Children, Parents, Siblings, Friends, and Colleagues
  • Navigation Plan for Dating in the Modern World
  • How to Reignite and Repair Emotional Damages and Set-Backs Within a Relationship and When & How to Make a Clean Safe and Healthy Break.
  • Recovering from a Past Relationship with a Narcissist/ Narcissistic Abuse
  • Couples Communication Exercises
  • Codependency and Insecure Attachment Recovery
  • Emotional Regulation Skills     
  • How to Put an End to Destructive Behaviors “Ego Preserving” and “Ego Protecting”
  • Accountability Traning
  • Recovery Plan for Compulsivity and Additive Behavior Patterns
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